What to Expect From a Webcam Sex Chat

So you've decided to give video chatting with a camgirl or guy a try, but don't know where to start or what to do? Do not jump into a video chat right away, spend some time on the website and try to figure out what you can do there. Many video chatting (aka adult dating) websites explicitly tell you what their rules are. All websites are different - on some of them you can see a camgirl and chat with her for free, but if you want to do more than chat, you will need to "take her private". This means you will be the only one looking at her, having her undivided attention and paying for her time. Then you can ask her to do something for you. On others websites you can only see pictures of a camgirl and cannot see her until you come into a paid video. The following guidelines apply to most adult webcam sex chat websites.
Browse before you jump head first into video chat
Before you jump into a video chat of the first camgirl who pops on your screen, do spend a few minutes in her photo archives to get an idea of what this girl is offering. False advertising is not allowed on adult dating websites, therefore you can get a pretty good idea whether this particular girl is offering a variety of toys, lingerie, high heels, smoking, etc, or whether she is slim, chubby or busty just enough for you. Everyone has a different taste when it comes to sexuality, and adult dating websites realize that and try to cater to as many tastes as it is legally possible to to. Therefore don't be afraid to browse and filter until you find the camgirl whose looks and profile you like. This will save you the disappointment if she does not offer what you were hoping she would.
It's OK to admit that you are new
It is perfectly fine to tell a camgirl that this is your first visit and ask for a guidance. Most camgirls will be happy to explain what you can expect from a video chat with them. Do not ask them to describe you everything they do on cam. Most camgirls have such a wide range of activities that it will take a month to describe everything, and most likely they wouldn't know where to start. Narrow down the question - ask them whether they do something that interests you. They are here to please you! You will be surprised how many times you will hear "yes I do that" if you ask them directly.
Striptease, anyone?
Here is a list of things MOST camgirls will do, no matter what category they are in. 1. Striptease. End of the list. There is no need to ask if they will do it, most will if you ask nicely. Just make sure you are not in the "looking for friends" non-adult category.
A little kinky, very kinky
Here is a list of what some camgirls will do, depending on the category they are in. Do check out their pictures and description to get a better idea. Ask in a free guest chat if you have doubts.
Playing with toys Modelling lingerie or outfits Roleplay/fantasy BDSM Couples action Girl-girl action
This by no means is a full list of things camgirls do. Most of them are very versatile and will try to fulfill almost any sexual fantasy.
Action! Now!
When you are in a video chat, you must be aware that you are paying, but do not throw this in a camgirl's face. Nothing kills the mood of a woman more than reminding her that she is on the clock. Do not urge her. Words like "could you", "please", or "is it possible" will do magic. Do not play macho and do not give orders. If giving orders is what turns you on, ask the camgirl if she would be com comfortable doing it. Most will be more than happy to play along if they know it's a game and not your attitude.
Cyber sex in a free guest chat is not appreciated
Camgirls do not cyber with free "guests" period. No camgirl in her right mind will have a cyber sex conversation with you. First, if they cannot see your nickname - it means you have not confirmed that you are adult, and there is no way for her to know if you are of a legal age, and second - it is simply rude. Enter her video chat and she will be more than happy to discuss any sexual fantasy you might have.
Do not spend much time in free guest chat
Some camgirls are friendly and will have a conversation with you in a free guests chat if they think you might visit them in a video chat later. Many camgirls might genuinely enjoy spending time with you in a free chat, but once they realize you are not going to ever come into video chat, they will lose interest. Remember - this is their business - their money and daily bread, and they are not doing cam shows because they have no social life or friends. If you have no intention of going into video chat, do not waste her time. Instead, you can browse free pictures and watch free videos and have all the fun you want. After all, you do not walk into a bar and chat with the bartender without ordering a drink no matter how charming you think you are, right? Webcam video chat is a lot of fun and you will have an exhilarating and liberating experience. You can enjoy it with your regular sexual partner or alone in the privacy of your own home and in full anonymity.